Saturday, August 1, 2009

Honor that we were talking about ...

Honor? We are talking about honor today. When statement came out, “Women should get married to get their honor.” I just keep quite. That’s mean I don’t have any honor yet.
Deep down in my heart I am feeling sad. Anything I did such taking care of my family, completed my study, enhancing my career are like nothing. I still don’t get my honor yet.
Then I wonder, our culture we talk about how big the wedding celebration and even we postpone the wedding just because we want to have like Cinderella wedding and we feel shame if we cannot afford the big event. But do we care about our daughter who hanging out with guys with no status. Our dignity is not concerned about that I believe.
Our dignity also talked about unmarried woman but we forget a lot of couple forced to get married earlier because they already made love before that and the girl get pregnant, so just to cover their honor. You can see yourself, how many babies dump on the road as a proof of love. If making love does not result pregnancy I believe that most of couple will not get married. Still we talking about other people dignity and forget about ours. We too concern about other people and forget about us.
I was live in this society and see sometimes why in religion it sound simple but why in the reality we rushing to completed something that not even in the religion and then claim that we are religious.
For example, marriage process should be simpler easier and it state in religion rule, but we added a lot of unnecessary thing and claim it is religious. See, we gain our dignity in different way.Honor? We are talking about honor today. When statement came out, “Women should get married to get their honor.” I just keep quite. That’s mean I don’t have any honor yet.
Deep down in my heart I am feeling sad. Anything I did such taking care of my family, completed my study is like nothing. I still don’t get my honor yet.
Then I wonder, our culture we talk about how big the wedding celebration and even we postpone the wedding just because we want to have like Cinderella wedding and we feel shame if we cannot afford the big event. But do we care about our daughter who hanging out with guys with no status. Our dignity is not concerned about that I believe.
Our dignity also talked about unmarried woman but we forget a lot of couple forced to get married earlier because they already made love before that and the girl get pregnant, so just to cover their honor. You can see yourself, how many babies dump on the road as a proof of love. If making love does not result pregnancy I believe that most of couple will not get married. Still we talking about other people dignity and forget about ours. We too concern about other people and forget about us.
I was live in this society and see sometimes why in religion it sound simple but why in the reality we rushing to completed something that not even in the religion and then claim that we are religious.
For example, marriage process should be simpler easier and it state in religion rule, but we added a lot of unnecessary thing and claim it is religious. See, we gain our dignity in different way.
When the statement that woman should get married in order to gain their honor. I just wonder why my honor needs to depend on other people. Can’t I pursuing my honor myself? We did something in order to gain from other people and we forget whether the process is getting that honor is honorable or not.
I believe my honor is not depending on other people, it’s depending on me, myself. If I get married, is not because of honor, it is love ok.
When the statement that woman should get married in order to gain their honor. I just wonder why my honor needs to depend on other people. Can’t I pursuing my honor myself? We did something in order to gain from other people and we forget whether the process is getting that honor is honorable or not.
I believe my honor is not depending on other people, it’s depending on me, myself. If I get married, is not because of honor, it is love ok.

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